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       Anonymous

hey there darl <3

i know what you feel like, my parents are separated aswell, but fortunately i still get to see my dad. if you think your mum is unhappy with a new man in her life, i think you should take her into her or your bedroom, sit down, and just let everything that you are feeling, out. tell her that you would like to see your dad, and you want more contact. chances are she’ll probably consider it. i know your position, and i know its hard, but sometimes you have to live with it, but im sure you’ll meet your father. in the meantime, fill up your spare time with friends, have a laugh, maybe get to know your mums new partner.

if you need anything else, please let me know! im here

- Liv xoxo



       Anonymous

Hi there sweetheart,
I know what you’re feeling, and please don’t cut, distract yourself with happy things, friends, family, music, anything. And do not kill yourself, don’t say no one cares, because I do, and I’m a complete stranger. However I do know what your feeling, like there’s no escape and you just want to die, believe me I know. But I’ve learnt that it does get better sooner or later, and imagine your family, your friends finding you dead. The guilt will live with them forever. Please stray strong, I’m always here if you need me. And remember when u think no one cares, I do.
Stay strong.

- Liv xx



       Anonymous

your welcome :) hope i helped!! xx

- Mia x



       Anonymous

hey, first off you need to think about how you would feel if it was the other way around. would you want to know? would you want him to tell you. I understand you feel guilty and don’t want to stuff things up, but in my opinion you need to tell him. Otherwise he could find out from somebody else, and that could make the situation worse. now at first he might get mad and upset. so explain what happened, then you need to prove to him that you really like him! show him that it was a mistake and it won’t happen again. Trust is the key to a good relationship, so you need prove to him that he can trust you. 

I hope things turn out well, we are always here if you want more advice :) good luck <3 xxxx

Mia x



       Anonymous

thankyou so much honey. you are amazing. come to us anytime you need. we are always here. 

- Liv xx



       Anonymous

hey :)

it’s not stupid at all, and while i know it can be quite embarassing and you want to make up excuses for it all, but the reason that it’s happening is quite simple and normal. are you feeling really stressed at the moment? because thats whats probably causing. if this is the case just try to relax as much as possible. maybe try eating at a table with your back straight, and eat a bit slower. i read somewhere that drinking tea might help. sorry i couldnt help more, but i hope it did just a little bit :)

- Liv xx